About Her

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Jan Cav Spurs

Jennifer Shatzer is a storyteller, a catalyst for change, and an advocate for authenticity. With an innate ability to unearth the silent narratives that weave through the fabric of our lives, she speaks to the power of vulnerability and the strength found in surrender. Her compelling talks challenge conventional wisdom, inviting listeners to explore the liberation that comes from embracing life's unpredictability.

In Her Words...

This is where I step out from the long-held silence, a realm where secrets once dictated the rhythm of my life. Here, I’ll be sharing the mosaic of my story—stories really, that span from childhood whispers to the vivid clarity of today.

As a child, secrets were my playmates, and confidences became my currency. I learned the power of words left unspoken and the isolation they brought. We’ll delve into these early lessons, the very roots of a life tinged with mystery and hidden truths.

This space will chart the journey through the fog of not seeing—or perhaps not wanting to see—the signs that were so clear in hindsight. It’s about the times I turned a blind eye and the moments that jolted me awake. We’ll navigate through the complex maze of realizations and the patterns that once seemed as intrinsic to me as breathing.

Together, we’ll revisit the crossroads and the crises that became turning points. The stories I tell will be filled with the raw honesty of those transformative experiences—the kind that crack you open and let the light seep into places long shadowed by fear and doubt.

The act of letting go, of releasing the grip on a life so carefully curated, will unfold in these posts. I’ll share the liberation found in surrender, the space it created for growth, and the new perspectives it ushered in.

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Vulnerability is the undercurrent of our narrative, the newfound strength that came from exposing my heart. It’s about the beauty that blossoms from openness, the connections that form when you dare to share your true self, and the healing that begins when you choose to be seen.

Expect an honest account of how the chaos of an ADHD mind shaped my existence. The sprint through life’s chaos, the untamed thoughts, and the unexpected clarity amid the whirlwind will be a part of our exploration.

As we venture into the reflections of mid-life, expect the distilled essence of hard-earned wisdom. I’ll share the lessons etched deep in the soul, the insights won through the trials, and the truths that emerged from years of silence.

This is a place where identities are unraveled and re-knit, where the past and present collide and create something new. It’s a testament to the journey from shadow to substance, from the role of a keeper of secrets to a seeker of truths.

So, welcome to the beginning of this journey, where the threads of past and present will weave a story of transformation. I’m here to share, to connect, to grow. And I invite you to do the same.

Here we go—no more secrets, just the unfolding story of a life lived out loud.

In Pictures...

Young Jennifer Shatzer

"Jenny" not "Jimmy"

I was bald for a long time as a baby. People would ask my name, and my birth mom would say Jenny, and they would hear Jimmy. She dressed me as girly as she could. My boot and bling obsession started early. 

No one in the world calls me Jenny anymore. Not if they know what is good for them. 

My Family

My mother is pregnant with my brother in this photo. 

Shatzer's before Jason

Me and my Bubba

We are almost 10 years apart which caused us to live very different lives and have very different upbringings. 

My New Family

My Dad remarried, she changed my life.

What a dorky 11 year old I was. 

The Stability and Unconditional Love Sources

My Nanny and Pappap. No one loved me better. 

I Got Married

Note the date, its the same day that OJ Simpson was in the White Bronco chase. That’s not his Bronco in this photo. 

We Had Babies

Babies having babies. I had all 3 kids by the time I was 27. 

I Homeschooled Them

My greatest joy and accomplishment.

They Became Adults

I have never known such love and pride. These three taught me. 

I Got Divorced

Getting divorced sucked, but not as much as being married. 

I Started Adventuring

I had given my whole life and being to my family. Adventuring starting building my confidence in myself. 

And Tried Dating

Naive. My milkshake brought all of the narcissists to my yard. 

Moved Home to Florida

I needed sunshine, comfort, safety and familiar. 

Met Frank

I paid dearly to have him and to keep him, but he taught me that I could love again. 

Finally Listened

God called me out of hell, then told me to tell the others. This is my attempt to do just that.